a Newsletter from Tuck Self, the Rebel Belle
September 26, 2007: Issue #13
I Like Being Me!
a Southern Voice for Bold Self-Expression

Human Design: I Like Being Me!

You know what? I haven’t always been able to say that... but today, it’s true. I like being me!

I even enjoy being a li’l selfish, putting myself first and occasionally tootin’ my horn. Is that arrogant? Some people think so. It must be how come many women give a “False” response to my “Are you Livin’ Your BellePower?” survey questions:

• I love myself completely and unconditionally.
• I celebrate my uniqueness and always put myself first.
• I’m comfortable tootin’ my horn.
• And... I am squeezing the juice and joy from my journey doing what I love to do.

Wow. WTF? Would you answer “False” to these questions too? Why?
In my career as a coach, I see many women hide, deny and suppress their uniqueness. Afraid to play big, they fear appearing selfish or arrogant. Rather than hearing them voice their confidence, uniqueness and zest for life, I hear limiting comments from old patterns of fear and conditioning like:

• I’m afraid to be me
• I’m not good at setting boundaries
• I need to be certain before I take action
• I compare myself to others
• I’m tired of trying to prove myself
• I’m not recognized or heard
• I feel pressure to be “doing” something, to be productive
• I never know when enough is enough
• I hang onto to people, jobs, and relationships too long
• I’ll be happy when I find the “right” career, person, or direction in life

Does this sound like you? Are these conversations about your life?

Have no fear, The Rebel Belle is here! Discover where you’re spinning your wheels. Live from your power, freedom and joy, rather than guilt, shame and blame. Let’s rock your life!

open centersTHE OPEN CENTERS in human design are areas of the conditioned and patterned behaviors that hold you back. Living from conditioned centers keeps you in fear, hanging on to old forms, beliefs and comfort zones, that no longer serve your life. You live from who you are not, rather than boldly from who you are. You live from a place of disempowering choices that close your life off to the fabulous gift of you.

EXERCISE: Observe the areas of life where you feel stuck, spinning your wheels, trying to achieve success and happiness? What are your patterns in this area? What is the conversation repeated over and over in your head.

Access or request your human design chart. Match your open centers with the self limiting questions on the “Living from the Not Self” chart and begin your de-conditioning. Learn the secret of what holds you back. Discover what keeps you from livin’ bold, squeezin’ the juice, and amazing yourself with your “fabulousness”?

Rock the world with your unique gifts and talents, doin’ what you love to do... tootin’ your horn along the way... so you too can say, “I Like Being Me!”

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Want more details? As a companion to your personal chart, you may be interested in purchasing my Personal Blueprint PDF Overview, which is designed to guide you through your chart and give an explanation of your type.

Interested in learning more about Human Design? For those seeking an introduction and “quick start” guide to Human Design concepts, types and centers, my Human Design Starter Kit is a must!

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