What Is LOVE?

'It's not Personal....It's Simply Energy!"

Greetings Friends and Happy Valentine's Month!

It is at this time of year that our thoughts frequently turn to the topic of love and relationships. 

What is love? Is it a feeling? Is it a feeling you long for when connecting with another individual? Is it an emotion? One that draws you to another individual or experience? Or, is it something you seek to feel within yourself?

Perhaps, love is even that ultimate expression of commitment you expect from your 'soul mate', partner or significant other?

However you define it, LOVE is CONNECTION. Love is interacting. It's aligning your energies with another person in dynamic and diversified ways. Love is also connecting with yourself. It's living out your nature, expressing your truest essence in connection with another. It's integrating all of who you are, with another person while fully embracing all of who they are.  

Sounds simple doesn't it? Simple in theory, possibly challenging in practice? 

When people come together energy is exchanged. There is giving and receiving, attraction and repulsion, and even tension may be felt. At times absolute magic happens, and of course.....there is LOVE.

Each individual intends to bring their authentic self to the relationship. Whether they know who that self is or not, they will bring their unique nature to the relationship. They express thoughts, emotions and perspectives collected and maintained through a lifetime of experiences. 

Attempting to connect, relate, combine and integrate these two very independent energies, perspectives, beliefs, judgments and modes of behavior, "Loving" and "Being Loved" becomes a challenge. Feelings get hurt. We experience rejection, not being seen, felt or heard. We take things personally. And finally, when we feel unloved, we guilt, blame and shame the other person for not being easy to love. 

Sounds slightly depressing, yes?! As ALWAYS....there is a very happy ending to this story. 

So, how do we make this "Loving and Being Loved" thing simple? How do we stay authentic and true to who we are, while loving the other person authentically for who they are? How do we experience a fabulously LOVING relationship without taking things personally? I'm glad you asked.....


In the Human Energy Design System how you connect with another person, how you enter and maintain a soulmate relationship with another: It's never personal - it's simply energy! 

What is LOVE? Love is who you are. Love is what you are. It is an energetic dynamic, one that is experienced individually and shared as a wholeness and oneness. Love is CONNECTING. 

Whether you experience attraction, repulsion, domination or compromise, love is never personal, it's simply energy. Knowing your personal energy dynamics, and how you connect to others, allows an authentic experience of self-love, and empowering connections to others. 

The Human Energy Design System opens to the door to the potential of Self-Love. Opening this door to self-love inspires a greater love - a love of life, and a connection to others that brings satisfaction, success, peace and delight. 

This Valentine's Month give yourself the Gift of Love:

1) Discover the Authentic YOU. Know your personal strengths, values, vulnerabilities and fears. Know how you authentically connect to others, versus attracting relationships from your conditioning. Living from conditioning, you'll attract what you think is missing. This will drive your behavior. Living from your greatest strengths, you'll attract all that fulfills and balances your life. It's not personal, it's simply energy. 

2) Experience your Authentic Partner. Know the strengths and values, as well as the vulnerabilities and fears of your partner. Discover the patterns of attraction, repulsion, dominance and tension in your relationship interactions. Accept it all; good, bad, happy, sad, stimulating, boring, generous, stingy. Shall I go on? It's not personal, it's simply energy.  

3) Empower the Partnership. Know the strengths, values, vulnerabilities and fears of the composite dynamic - the partnership. Discover the synthesis and synchronicity of the individual energy dynamics, and how they integrate to create a dynamic, empowering, evolving soul-mate relationship. Be open to love. It's not personal, it's simply energy.  

Love as a Source is who you are, pure energy, power, and essence. Love as an experience is an opportunity to connect to another as love. Both are opportunities to experience ourselves as our best, most expansive, and creative abundant selves. 

I invite you to have a love affair with yourself this month. Discover how rich the energy of love is - for yourself as well as for another. Schedule your Human Design Session: 

Human Design Personal Session: Discover the authentic you. Learn about your true nature, and what you require to honor in yourself to live authentically and...... Be Who You Are. 

Human Design Partnership Session: Discover the energy dynamics of any relationship and how come the dynamics are there. Learn how to navigate these dynamics, and how when those dynamics are understood it is possible to make any relationship a soul mate relationship that works. 


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****Tuck Self is a SELF-Empowerment and Listening Coach and Catalys., and a Robbins-Madanes Trained Coach. For 15+ years, she has provided individual and group Coaching Programs, Workshops and Retreats that facilitate personal discovery, development, spiritual growth and authentic living. The foundations of her unique coaching style are Human Design, BG5™ and The Gene Keys and Golden Pathway; Systems that bring powerful insights and strategies for self-illumination, self-love and self-mastery, as well as creating life, love and work that resonate with your heart and soul. 

To work with Tuck or for additional information email Tuck@TheRebelBelle.com or call 803-665-0847.

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