According to the Solar Calendar Year in The Human Energy Design System, today - January 22 is the 1st day of the New Solar Year. Happy New Year! I personally find this to be exciting and an opportunity for a fresh start. I'm exhausted from the energy wave of the New Year proclamations and resolutions. My environment has felt scattered, chaotic and panicky. I experience the people around me as clamoring for relevance, desperate in claiming what they deserve, and blind to the unconscious cyclical robotic behavior characteristic of this time of year. Whew! Therefore, I have question for you to ponder.
What the frig do you think would happen if you DIDN'T set goals and resolutions for the New Year? How would that feel?
What if, as your new 'fresh start', rather than making a list of ALL the things you want to manifest, accomplish, experience and create, you made a list of the FEELING experiences you desire?
Rather than proclaiming and promising changes in your actions and behaviors, rather than making a list with deadlines (an awful feeling word btw), you focus on the ESSENCE of what you desire to create and experience? For example in this New Year and Decade, 'I desire the essence experience of freedom in my life and relationships, as well as joy, creativity, ease, contribution and fun'. Doesn't that feel high vibe?
Here's a li'l Rebel Belle Truth: Goal setting for the most part consists of writing a list of forms and timelines. These forms are usually a REACTION to a person, event or circumstance in your life that you DO NOT want.
Your proclamation to have this form is based in fear; fear of the past, fear of the future and resistance to what is. You are NOT seeking essence. What you ARE seeking is security. You are seeking certainty. You are seeking power, safety and value, all the while trying to force a form that is not grounded in the truth of who you are, and the desires of your heart. When you come to this exercise listing your forms from a place of fear, you will not be able to authentically see what is possible. You will see through the filter of fear.
NOW - as always there IS a happy ending to our story!
Here's your 2nd li'l Rebel Belle Truth for the Day: All resources come from your connection to spirit. When you focus on the Essence of what your heart desires to create, Spirit will ALWAYS bring you exactly what you require in order to create that experience of essence. At times this may also include lessons, teachings and opportunities to overcome the obstacles that block the outcome of that form.
In Being Magical, you are poised to create EXACTLY as much love, fun, joy, creativity and ease as your degree of fear will allow.
White Buffalo says, 'Where there is fear in any area of your life there is a lack of flow. Where there is fearlessness there is abundant flow.'
I'm choosing fearlessness.
Want to join me?
Eight Ways to Be Magical in the New Year and Decade:
(1) Make a list of the current people, events and circumstances in your life right now, the ones you want and the ones you don't want. No judgment! (At least not right now...LOL)
(2) Record the facts of these forms as
they are. As you are listing these people, events and circumstances in your
life, notice your thoughts and how you FEEL. Do you FEEL joy? Do you feel
happy, creative and at ease? If not, notice any tension you feel in the form of
fear. NOW the judgments! Do you feel unsafe? Do you feel frustrated,
worried or resolved? Do you make up that these forms say something about you,
and your ability to accomplish, or not? Do you have regrets? Is it from
THIS place of fear that you are choosing your goals for the year and decade?
(3) Now, separate the facts of these
forms in your life from the judgments, fears, uncertainty, attachments,
limitations and projections you have about them. Not a great way to FEEL,
yes?
(4) Pivotal Moment: Embrace
the fear. Honor the fear, and while being uncomfortable and afraid, embrace the
uncertainty that is causing your fear. Throw away the form - your time frames
and schedules. Know that your fears and judgments are an investment in an
illusion of certainty, and your desire to control an outcome. NOT a
great investment of your time, talents and energies.
(5) Happy Ending to the Story - Identifying
Essence: With pen in hand, this New Year and Decade, make your new list and
ask yourself: What is possible for my life, love and work? What FEELING
experience do I want to create? What will bring me more joy, creativity, and effortless
ease and flow? Given that I desire this person, event or circumstance, will it bring
me essence? Now, THIS IS a
great investment of your time, talents and energies.
(6) With this new list of Essence
Words representing the experiences you desire to call into your life in
this New Year and Decade, post them where you see them every day. Have
faith that Spirit will bring you forms - people, events and circumstances that
are far beyond anything you could imagine, as well as the resources to play and
create from your heart's desire.
(7) Contemplate your life as you live
it today and ask, 'Where am I already experiencing these ESSENCE words? What
forms do I currently have where I experience this Essence?'
(8) Finally, invest your time, talents and energy EVERY DAY in one of those current forms, the ones bringing you Essence. This will make you magical. It will open the door (and keep it open J) to unlimited possibility.
You are a Magical Be-ing.
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If you are seeking
guidance in Be-ing Magical in this New Year and Decade, I would LOVE to work
one-on-one with you. Using your Human Energy Design as foundation, you'll
discover your essence and truth of who you are. You will be inspired by the
gifts you have given yourself to live authentically and create a purposeful and
fulfilling life.
Tuck
Self is a SELF-Empowerment and Listening Coach and Catalyst, and
Robbins-Madanes Trained Coach. For 15+ years, she has provided individual and
group Coaching Programs, Workshops and Retreats that facilitate personal
discovery, development, spiritual growth and authentic living. The foundations
of her unique coaching style are Human Design and The Gene Keys and Golden
Pathway; Systems that bring powerful insights, illuminations and strategies for
self mastery, as well as creating life, love and work that resonate with your
heart and soul.
To work with Tuck and for information on the following individual and group programs:
One-on-One Personal Empowerment Coaching
Human Design for Profit Potential
Human Design for Personal Career Analysis and Leadership
Human Design for Partnerships, Small Business and Large Business
Introduction to the Gene Keys/Golden Pathway
Deep Dive into Your Golden Pathway
You may email me at Tuck@TheRebelBelle.com or call (803)665-0847 for a FREE consultation.
